The Stolls of Kingston

EMMA CLARK
Emma Leora Clark was the eldest of nine children born to Niles Martin Clark and Lizzie Matilda Tooker of East Haddam, CT.

Shortly after my grandfather Herbert Francis Clarke was born, his eldest sister Emma left the Clark home in East Haddam to marry Anthony Stoll, a British immigrant whose family had lived in Bushwick Brooklyn upon arrival in the New World, but upon doctor's orders that Anthony's father move to the country as the air would be better for his poor health (stemming from lead poisoning by inhaling paint fumes), they had sailed up the Connecticut River and settled in Killingworth, to live in a house that a lawyer friend of the family had found for them. Anthony was a farmer, and later owned a gas station, and worked as a mechanic for the Town of Ulster, but he was also reputed to have been quite a tap dancer. He and Emma married in 1908 and settled in Chester, Connecticut for a few years before moving to Rosendale Town, near Kingston New York. They later lived on Albany Avenue in Ulster Town, New York.


ANTHONY AND EMMA STOLL

ANTHONY AND EMMA STOLL (1913)

Anthony & Emma had six children, and eight grandchildren:

1.  Fanny Stoll (1909-1995) married her 2nd cousin, Richard Snow.  She worked as a sales girl at the Woolworth five and dime in Kingston, but later moved to Richmond, California, to be closer to her aunt Ethel Clark-Adams.  She had two sons (Richard Jr. and Albert).  Albert married Doris Cogswell and had four children, settling in Kingston.

2.  Emma Stoll (1914-??) may be the same Emma R. Stoll who was a prisoner at the Monroe County Penitentiary in New York for the 1935-1940 Census.  I don't believe she was ever married, and I cannot locate her in the 1950 Census.  But the 1925 NY Census does not include Emma at all, so I'm inclined to believe she may have actually died after the 1920 U.S. Census.

3.  Anthony Stoll Jr. (1915-1959) wasn't married at the 1940 Census, nor by the 1950 Census, where was living with his father, still single, and working as an auto mechanic.  He was first VP of Stoll's Enterprise, Inc.

4.  Edward Stoll (1918-2009), born on New Year's Day, married Elsie Haertling who had two daughters from a prior marriage.  Edward and Elsie had no kids of their own.  He worked as a pipe fitter at a service station, and eventually moved to Palm Beach, FL.

5.  Vincent Stoll (1919-1962) married Roland Jacques from Fort Kent, whose parents were from Connecticut.  They had three children, and settled in Ulster Town, NY, where he worked as part owner of a gas station.

6.  Henry Stoll (1922-1979) fought in WWII, married Dorothy Sheeley, and had three children.  Like the rest of the family, he worked in a service station.  

Here is a picture taken in 1931, at Anthony's parents' 50th wedding anniversary:


Emma is seated to the far left, wearing glasses (she is the only obvious Clark in the picture-I think she sticks out like a sore thumb!)...and Emma's daughter Fanny Stoll Snow is seated to the far right, wearing a broach, and her hands folded in her lap. In addition to eldest brother, Anthony Jr (located in the back row, first one one left that's in front of the fireplace), three of her little brothers are sitting at her feet (Harry, Edward, and Vincent). You can tell Edward is a relative of the Clarks....see how he's giving the photographer the finger? haha. Those I think are the only Clark blood relatives of ours in this picture. The rest of them are all Stolls, Anthony's extended family.

Most of the Stolls are buried in St. Mary's Cemetery in Kingston.


GRAVE OF RICHARD & FANNY SNOW

GRAVE OF VINCENT & ROLANDE STOLL

GRAVE OF ANTHONY & EMMA STOLL

Ethel Clark & Fanny Snow

Upon getting from Jerry more specific dates of birth and death for my great aunt, Ethel Clark, Ancestry provided me with an automated "hint" about where Ethel actually died...and lo and behold, she died in Contra Costa County, California....right across the Bay from me in San Francisco.

It was shocking to me to learn that I wasn't the first to go west. Not that I wanted to be, but I assumed the family was so well contained in New England, with a very few people having moved to Florida and Mississippi.

I have no idea why she moved out west, but the 1950 census has her and her husband Cyril moving to El Monte, Los Angeles, and then later dying in Richmond, CA in 1981. Anyhow, I learned about this while Mom was still here. She had only heard a little about her Aunt Ethel, being one of Grampy Clark's sisters. Grampy Clark grew up in an orphanage, but that's another story...

Another great thing about Ancestry is that it also has searchable databases of a variety of public records. I was able to find Aunt Ethel's actual street address. Further research pointed me to the fact that Grampy Clark's sister Emma had a daughter named Fanny Stoll (married name Snow), that moved out west to live with Aunt Ethel.



FANNY STOLL SNOW (1931)
Fanny's husband Richard Snow had died in Hartford in 1962. Shortly thereafter, she moved out west to live with her Aunt Ethel. Fanny worked at Woolworth's in San Pablo as a salesclerk from around 1970-1985. The 1930 Census had her working as a sales girl at the local five and dime in Ulster Town, New York. In 1940, Fanny and Dick were live-in caretakers at the Curtis household on Curtis Road in Brookfield, CT, just before they had their two children, Dick, Jr. and Albert.

FANNY & DICK SNOW
ABT 1940

Fanny battled diabetes all her life, and renal failure put her in the Brookside Nursing Home in San Pablo (now Creekside). She died four months later, on New Year's Eve, Dec. 1995. Her son Richard Jr was the informant on her death record. He was living at the Snow residence in San Pablo at the time. He died 18 months later in Clearlake, up in Lake County, California. Fanny was laid to rest in Kingston at St. Mary's Cemetery, at the Snow/Stoll family plot. Her other son, Albert, lived in Kingston all his life, and was also buried near his mother. The confusing thing is, her social security records had the last payment address as Fort Dodge, Iowa. I wonder if that was the headquarters for the nursing home?

At some point in the 1930s, friends of Fanny's threw her a surptise party at her parents' home in Kingston.  Not sure why they were calling her "Miss" when she was Mrs. Snow.



Mom, my friend Emily (another Ancestry dork) and I all piled into the Zipcar for a trip to Napa Valley, and stopped on the way to see Aunt Ethel's old house, which is in San Pablo, on the border of Richmond.



SNOW RESIDENCE (Lovegrove Avenue)
San Pablo, CA
The neighborhood looked a bit rough to me, from the car window. This didn't stop Mom, who started to get out of the car and walk over to the front door of the house, hoping she could get an interview with someone who knew her old aunt. I was all like "Mom, get back in the car!!" Richmond is notorious for its crime rate, and I didn't want to take any chances on Mom having some trouble. Besides, Ethel had died 30 years ago at that address...what are the chances of anyone knowing anything about her? Apparently, during the time Ethel and Fanny lived there, the town was in a boom because of a Ford motor plant, which was later relocated, hence the poor economy there now, and high crime.

Ethel battled ovarian cancer, had her ovaries removed, and ultimately died from the disease in 1981, at Brookside Hospital (now Doctors Medical Center). I can't seem to find out what happened to her husband, tree surgeon (and informant on her death certificate, Cyril Adams), after she died. 

Ethel was previously married to German-born Oscar Arthur Hellmuth, in Bristol, CT, and had one daughter, Celia May Hellmuth-Carkasio-Wagner (1921-1991).  Celia had two daughters, Celia and Agnes.

We also went to Rolling Hills Cemetery, where I happened to locate a burial site for Ethel and her husband, Cyril Adams. There was no grave marker. Only a sad grassy knoll.


The dude who brought us there looked exactly like Lurch from the Addams Family:


Lurch was very nice, and was also very embarrassed at the possibility that Ethel and Cyril's grave was covered over with dirt and grass (due to 30 years of weather). He got on his walkie-talkie and ordered two gravediggers to come over in their tractorette, and start digging up the site!!! WTF???

Suddenly a guy in a cookie monster hooded sweatshirt is at the gravesite, pickaxing and shoveling away at the knoll, looking for any sign of a grave marker. Lurch ordered them to stop when it was clear that there was, after all, no marker. Phew! I'm sure my mom would have loved to have met Aunt Ethel, but not just her skeletal structure!

The Clarks have always been "no fuss no muss" so it doesn't surprise me that old Ethel opted not to get a fancy grave marker. I have to take Lurch's word for it...she's buried there.

Fanny and her husband Richard, however, are buried in Kingston, New York, at St. Mary's Cemetery.